Re: the softboy phenomenon, I would like to thank you for the mantra "new year, new dicks," which I repeat to myself often for encouragement. (Was this a Carlynne original? I think yes!)
I think it's possible my softboy wasn't always a softboy since we did set out with an earnest intention to date... but I maybe let it switch over to that a few months after he broke up with me because I left the door open for stuff to keep happening, knowing he was exploring his options and didn't want to commit to me. Annnyway. I haven't seen him since October. New year, new dicks. (I mean, I still haven't actually encountered any new dicks in the new year, but you know. Pandemic.) xo
Re: the softboy phenomenon, I would like to thank you for the mantra "new year, new dicks," which I repeat to myself often for encouragement. (Was this a Carlynne original? I think yes!)
I think it's possible my softboy wasn't always a softboy since we did set out with an earnest intention to date... but I maybe let it switch over to that a few months after he broke up with me because I left the door open for stuff to keep happening, knowing he was exploring his options and didn't want to commit to me. Annnyway. I haven't seen him since October. New year, new dicks. (I mean, I still haven't actually encountered any new dicks in the new year, but you know. Pandemic.) xo